Sabi nila bago ka daw matuto na mag mahal kailangan daw mahalin mo muna ang sarili mo… parang napaka simple diba? Pero naisip mo na ba kung talagang minahal o mahal mo nga ba ang sarili mo?
Ako? Hindi ko sigurado… oo yata… ay teka hindi rin siguro… panu mo nga ba mamahalin ang isang tao kung ikaw mismo sa sarili mo hindi mo sigurado kung karapat dapat ka nga bang mahalin…
Alam mong iba ang pagtingin mo sa sarili mo at iba ka rin sa mata ng ibang tao. Panu ka nga ba nakikilala ng isang tao? Sa pangalan? Sa maga sinasabi mo? O kaya naman ay sa mga ginawa mo? Para
Sa psychiatric nursing o kahit sa psychology meron silang tinatawag na Johari’s Window. Sabi ditto merong apat na klase ng personality ang isang tao. Yung alm mong mga traits mo, yung alam ng iba pero hindi mo alam, yung alam mo pero tinatago mo at yung ikaw na walang may alam meaning it’s yet to be discover.
Siguro dahil don kaya tayo may mga instincts tayo or siguro yun na din yung reason kung bakit sometimes we feel empty. We feel alone for some reasons na hindi natin alam na parang there’s always something missing in our life. siguro talagang ganon ang tao we always want more. Hindi tayo nakukuntento sa kung ano yung nasa atin. We always complain. We always ask for more.
I believe that unknown part of the johari’s window was never really unknown. It was just there waiting to be unleashed and discover. Remember jerry magguire? He said “you complete me” to his wife. Maybe that part of the window is supposed to be shared with someone. I mean kahit naman mga parents natin they don’t know every part of us. Parang kung ano man yung nakikita nila satin eh superficial lang, na we’re really more to what they see in us.
Kaya siguro intimate partner ang tawag sa mga mag asawa kasi they share everything… they let that someone that they love cross the intimacy line… and for me, (someone who loves privacy very much), that’s really, really something –it’s like some sort of sacrifice(?). pero if there’s one thing I love about crossing the line I guess it’s because they bring out the best in each other. Alam mo yun you wanted to be good and nice for that someone you love (sweet, hehehe). Kung dati matino ka tapos adik yung mahal mo eventually adik ka na din hahaha well it depends siguro kung sino mas may strong personality pero I’m sure in the end magkakahawahan din kayo… hahaha
